"Grandma, what color is your hair? White. Just
like milk!
I was moved
by my grandson’s observation who, at age two, likes “white milk”.
The
primordial nutrient, that brings with it comfort, tenderness, growth and
nutrition.
Milk is
good!
My grandson
didn’t tell me that my hair was white as snow, which is cold and burns, and he
wasn’t talking about “saudade”.
In his
childhood wisdom, he was going against the foul words spoken by a Social Democratic
deputy who, in a moment of parliamentary theatricality, said that “our
fatherland was contaminated by the gray plague” (sic).
In order to
speak against the systematic violence against the elderly, now also perpetrated
in our country’s highest Chamber, I did some research on the accomplishments of
said gray haired guys: the “plague”. Here are but a few:
·
Morse
developed the Morse Code at age 47;
·
Edgar
Rice Burroughs, creator of Tarzan, was a War correspondent at age 67;
·
Bell
was still inventing at age 75 and Edison produced the telephone at age 84;
·
Golda
Meir was Prime Minister at age 70 and Winston Churchill both at 66 and 77 years
old, and Adenauer at age 88.
·
Both
Charles de Gaulle and Ronald Reagan were presidents at age 69.
·
Benjamin
Franklin gave his contribution to the US Constitution at age 81.
·
Goethe
finished “Faustus” at age 81, Tolstoi wrote “I cannot be silent” at 82, Somerset
Maugham wrote “Viewpoints” at age 84, and Bernard Shaw wrote the “Farfetched
Fables” at age 93;
·
Claude
Monet still painted in his 70’s – 80’s, Michelangelo in his 80’s and Picasso in
his 90’s.
·
Albert
Schweizer still worked on the operating table at age 89;
·
Elizabeth
Arden and Coco Chanel both took care of their respective companies until they
were over 85 years old.
·
Rubinstein
played in his 90’s and Pablo Casals while over 96 years of age;
·
Tesichi
Igarishi climbed Mount Fuji on foot in his 100th birthday;
·
Manoel
de Oliveira directed twenty films after his 82nd birthday and
released his film “Gebo and the Shadow” while he was 104 years old.
One might argue that these are only a few and successful people, while there is an enormous
amount of useless and ill elderly that make society spend an enormous quantity
of money. The foolish inverted pyramid!
While they
don’t decide to retake the old Sparta’s habit of throwing the elderly into the sea,
perhaps in Sagres or Cape Espichel, I would like to name but a few elderly who
anonymously and without glamour,
continue to prove their usefulness every single day:
·
There
are mothers in their 80’s that must once again take care of their unemployed
sons;
·
There
are grandparents taking care of the household members suddenly unemployed or
divorced;
·
There
are husbands or wives taking care of their now demented partners;
·
There
are many elderly all over the country, taking care of their plantation or
villages, and so maintaining our secular identities.
·
There
are many elderly still working and making a living;
·
There
are many elderly stubbornly living alone.There are many elderly who are unique deposits of our cultural knowledge and of our
collective memories;
·
There
are many gray heads ruling over Europe’s destiny;
·
There
is a national solidarity network of people and institutions, organized beside
the current state of affairs, that maintains untouched and alive churches,
homes and other social institutions;
·
In
Europe, it is mainly gray haired people who silently perpetrate in each church
our Lord Jesus’ memento: “Do this in my name”.
The Scriptures
teach us that age brings wisdom. Thus, the biblical patriarchs, Abraham, Isaac
and Jacob were elderly, and the most stable institutions in History, such as the
Religious Churches, Universities or the Armed Forces, have been governed by
gray haired people.
Our deputy
surely did not have the pleasure of being in his grandmother’s lap, nor does he
have parents with gray hair.
Since my
hair is white as milk, I am really sorry for you. I’m sorry for you and for all
those who can’t see anything in their lives beyond money, power and
possessions.
I’m sorry
for those who, as Pope Francis says, are contaminated by indifference’s
globalization.
I’m sorry
for those who don’t include any sort of transcendence in their daily lives.
And therefore,
especially for you, Mr. Deputy, and for whoever feels like reading it, I
leave a psalm for an eventual meditation.
Psalm 92:12-14
The justs will flourish like a palm tree and
will grow as Lebanon’s cedar trees; planted in the Lord’s Home they will
flourish in Our Lord’s court. They will still bear fruit in their elder age and
will remain fresh and verdant.
Professor Teresa Paiva
Lisbon, July 19th 2013